Microinsults are the more tricky microaggressions to identify, and also the most common form of microaggression identified by Dr. Deral Wing Sue. They are subtle acts which convey contempt and disrespect for someone. They are subtle, spur-of-the-moment, back-handed, and it can be hard to tell if the perpetrator is even aware what they're doing is insulting.
Examples of microinsults:
- When Joe Biden "complimented" President Barack Obama by calling him the "first black person articulate enough to be a front-runner for president." 
- When cisgender television personality Katie Couric asked transgender actress Laverne Cox and transgender model Carmen Carrera about their genitals on national television.
- When an able-bodied person speaks to a person in a wheelchair as if they are a small child.
- When a straight person calls something "gay" to mean stupid.
- When a neurotypical person says they did something "like a maniac."
- When a man calls a woman "sweetie" or "baby" in a professional context.
- A white person following a black person around a store
- A cisgender person taking a picture of a transgender person in public without their consent.
Microinsults can be incredibly frustrating. You feel bad about something, but sometimes can't even place your finger on why. These are the ones that most resemble paper cuts. They really do look so minor, but they happen so often that it wears you down, until there are significant impacts on your mental and physical health.[5-13]
For microinsults, the main coping skills I suggest are seeking validation, taking care of yourself, and remembering your goals.
Also see: Microassaults, and Microinvalidations
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